Relationship Memoir in 6 Words

June 27, 2008

Could you define your entire life in six words? I find that idea so mind-boggling yet annoyingly seductive. How would you do it, and if you did, what could you really say? That’s a fun thing to noodle about especially at 3 a.m. when you have insomnia. (uh, that might be just me).image credit: Aldo Murillio Writing My Memoirs

Have you heard of this book, Not Quite What I Had Planned: Six Word Memoirs by Writers Famous and Obscure? I first heard of the book on NPR and the idea was enough to get me out of the covers to listen.

The idea of boiling a life into six essential words is so yummy. It can be as complex as you want or as simple and commonplace as the title. Definitely read the book.

Relationship Memoirs

You already know I couldn’t resist wondering if you could apply the same poetry to relationships. Yep, it works. I’m still playing with my first two attempts to imortalize my marriage:

Complex yet better than I dreamed

Love means remembering why I care

Not bad for a start but I think I can do better. I’d like to do some funny ones, too.

Enter the Contest

Of course, you can do this much better than me, and I’d love to prove that. That why I thought it’d be fun to have a little contest.

Between now and Sunday, June 29th at 5 p.m.  Monday, June 30 5 p.m. EST, enter your very own Relationship Memoir describing your personal romantic history or marriage.

Simple Rules

Remember, your memoir can only be six words and should make a sentence. Pronouns and articles are included in the word count. And let’s keep it clean. Wit beats crudeness. I’ll pick 7 semi-finalists then you, my dear reader, will vote for a winner.

What does the winner get? Bragging rights, of course and a gift certificate to a restaurant. Who knows…it’s a gift that might lead to more memories. All the usual contest rules apply…you know what I mean.

Enter Now! Leave a Comment…

Oh, if you’re having fun with this, I could sure use a little stumbleupon love.

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Comments

46 Responses to “Relationship Memoir in 6 Words”

  1. Craig Brownell on June 27th, 2008 9:44 am

    If only I had known before.

  2. Susan Hawkins on June 27th, 2008 11:35 am

    Infatuation. Legalization. Expectation. Frustration. Communication. Admiration.

  3. David Newman on June 27th, 2008 11:39 am

    It ain’t easy but it’s bliss.

  4. Richard Potter on June 27th, 2008 12:07 pm

    Over-easy, scrambled, poached, sunny side up.

  5. Dave Williams on June 27th, 2008 12:30 pm

    She was just the right one

  6. Madison Thompson on June 27th, 2008 12:37 pm

    “He gave life his best effort!

  7. Meryl K. Evans on June 27th, 2008 12:42 pm

    Rick-Rolled me with lyrics in 1988.

  8. Susanne Miller on June 27th, 2008 1:39 pm

    Baby, you’re the ginchiest!

    FYI…heard about this contest on HARO…

  9. Lu Schindler on June 27th, 2008 1:39 pm

    We are still living our honeymoon!

  10. Sonya on June 27th, 2008 1:47 pm

    Preconceived expectations mattered less than happiness.

  11. Adrienne Travis on June 27th, 2008 1:51 pm

    Love usually requires giving things up.

  12. Kae Tienstra on June 27th, 2008 1:53 pm

    Together, we make it all happen.

    (FYI–Heard about this on HARO.)

  13. Susan Heim on June 27th, 2008 2:07 pm

    He’s grumpier than I had expected!

  14. Wesley on June 27th, 2008 2:45 pm

    Old age seemed afar. Then not.

  15. Diane on June 27th, 2008 4:17 pm

    Love equals growth, grace and gratitude.

  16. Candace on June 27th, 2008 4:24 pm

    We choose to do life together.

  17. Annette Fix on June 27th, 2008 4:59 pm

    What can I do for you?

    (We ask each other this question every day.)

  18. William Waites on June 27th, 2008 5:34 pm

    Better to be married than right.

    FYI - recruited by HARO

  19. Caron Ellis on June 27th, 2008 5:47 pm

    Best friends, we complete each other.

  20. Mitch Wagner on June 27th, 2008 6:07 pm

    Sounds like a wonderful idea, dear.

  21. Robyn Lyssen on June 27th, 2008 6:30 pm

    Friend, lover, scholar…marry your dream.

    Forever is a long, long time.

    Disillusioned….to half or half not?

    (Choose your favorite, found your post on HARO)

  22. Ania Kubicki on June 27th, 2008 7:03 pm

    “six words is simply not enough”

    “what happens here… ends on YouTube”

    … and this does not apply to the contest rules, but in words of our four year old “I can’t hear you, ’cause it’s all about ME.”

  23. kevin mccrea on June 27th, 2008 7:26 pm

    Love is a state of Mind

  24. Mel on June 27th, 2008 7:38 pm

    Saving for a mail order bride.

    My professor’s potbelly turned me on.

    Lusted over blacksmith who’s now female.

    I wanted kids; she wanted cats.

    (Ok, two of these may be true - I’ll leave that up to speculation..)

  25. Dina on June 27th, 2008 8:08 pm

    @ all Poets! Wow, there’s some mighty fine work here. I’m already feeling torn…but don’t stop!

  26. Teal Cuttlefish on June 27th, 2008 9:29 pm

    Phenomenal partnership, through better and worse.

    Standing together, holding hands, facing forward.

    I got here from HARO, too.

  27. Karen Garcia on June 27th, 2008 10:11 pm

    Three kids. Nine years. Wouldn’t change.

  28. Rhea on June 27th, 2008 11:20 pm

    Not content yet, but pretty happy.

  29. Gail Sussman-Miller on June 27th, 2008 11:49 pm

    Midlife marriage equals life long blessing

    Laughter and daily cuddling fosters love

  30. Teal Cuttefish on June 28th, 2008 1:47 am

    Are multiple entries allowed? I keep coming up with even better ones!

  31. Dina on June 28th, 2008 2:26 am

    Multiple entries are SO welcome. This is starting to get good d

  32. Leslie on June 28th, 2008 2:54 am

    “I’ll never use the remote again!”

  33. Leslie on June 28th, 2008 2:59 am

    “Discover why God put you together”

  34. ken on June 28th, 2008 3:16 am

    “Remember, we’re on the same team.”

  35. ken on June 28th, 2008 3:19 am

    18 years. The marriage can drive.

  36. Teal Cuttefish on June 28th, 2008 9:04 am

    Wow, how’d we get to sixteen?

    Both give 70 percent, expect 30

  37. Pegine Echevarria on June 28th, 2008 7:24 pm

    Our marriage is a soul adventure!

    HARO sent me.

  38. Sarah on June 29th, 2008 1:54 pm

    Got it right the second time.

  39. Birney Summers on June 29th, 2008 3:55 pm

    Trying times made our love stronger.

    Thirty eight years and glowing strong.

  40. Corinne Edwards on June 29th, 2008 8:39 pm

    Forever is not so long anymore.

  41. Shubhra Bhattacharya Chandra on June 30th, 2008 1:04 am

    Twenty years of marriage in 2008!

  42. JoJami on June 30th, 2008 4:06 am

    Fireworks are still flying even now.

  43. Sandra Foyt on June 30th, 2008 10:39 pm

    Exploring Learning Fighting Growing Changing Loving

  44. Sarah on July 1st, 2008 12:58 pm

    I finally found a four-leaf clover.

    or, if four-leaf counts as 2 words:

    Finally found a four-leaf clover.

  45. Jenn Benn on July 2nd, 2008 12:29 am

    Third time’s a charm; cross fingers.

  46. Romantic Memoirs-the Finalists! : This Marriage Thing on July 2nd, 2008 1:27 pm

    […] In an earlier post I asked folks to meet my challenge of summing up years of relationship in just six words. What’s so delicious about this is that you can go in almost any direction. Some folks literally offered six words. Like these: […]

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